“Be the sword, not the superhero” is one of the lenses I apply to drive outcomes I want without sacrificing relationships The hero’s journey is a tried and true framework for transformation Upper 1/3 is the known world; comfort, familiarity and safety The bottom 2/3 is the unknown; uncertainty, hesitancy, and fear live here…. But so does growth, impact and the answer to our wildest dreams No great outcome can be had alone; winning the Super Bowl, building a family, growing a company… these are all “team sports” And people are wired to survive, not thrive So we are more attuned to fear & avoiding loss than we are towards earning gain This causes people to Be skeptics; if I ask questions on discovery call that are clearly self serving - their answers will be mediocre and they will want to pull back That’s because I’m trying to make myself a hero; I’m trying to make them feel small and weak and incapable - and that their only glimmer of hope is MEEEE Who tf would want to take ownership of that situation? Not my clients… not most people…. Better is to “be the sword”; meaning the CUSTOMER can be the superhero , wielding the power I bring them This places them at the center of everything - give them the credit - raise them up and cheer louder than anyone… Deep down, they’ll know; this was a team effort… it couldn’t have happened without you…. But you had the reserve to let them soak in the moment, take the external credit, and hold their head highly If getting credit is your highest focus, you’ll miss out on a lot of the coolest imaginable journeys, because they’re someone else’s to be lived When your focus is impact, changing outcomes, and helping people ascend to their highest selves - you become irreplaceable and infinitely valued One last “Kellenism” to end with: Everything I’ll ever receive in life is on the other end of something I’ll do for someone else Let’s take the day by force ⚔️😈⚔️ | 12 comments on LinkedIn